Saturday, September 08, 2007

 

Judgement Day!

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It never fails to amaze me how quickly some people located thousands of miles can form opinions or perceptions of others without even having to meet them.

It is as if, the act of their judgement is an act of pride viewed from their moral high horse. It involves looking to their own dim-wit narrow perspective, putting together a few perceived facts, figures or fancies, …or worse, just by judging from what others post or comment and coming up with the conclusion if they are good, bad or ugly.

To these bigots, judging others is an act of monumental pride - enormous pride, stupendous pride, galling, astonishing, fantastic pride.

This should be understood. When you render judgement on another, you have taken upon yourself an awesome responsibility for making the correct judgement. Because, in the first place, your judgement is not necessary. But if you persist, then be prepared to be judged likewise.

Often, when you judge people against your benchmarked ‘paradigm’ of right and wrong you failed to realize it is terribly flawed by YOUR inherent biasness.

This in turn leads to the question of acceptance. What is not acceptable to you may not necessarily apply to others. Learn to tolerate and live with it while pondering over what I have said as you are withering away in your twilight years! Senility is not an excuse.

Enjoy the song....I'm sure you would!


Comments:
wahhhhh, cocka... why so serious wan?! I judge you not. I just wanna have BKT with you! kkkkk!

I mischu lah. when are you coming to see me?
 
stay cool, ayam
breath in, breath out :)

btw, me and ah ben talking and thinking about u yesterday night leh, coz haven't see u online for so long liao. Thought u MIA liao leh...
 
steady steady man. i'm on your side!!!
 
I was judged too.. for posting about my sadness. The male commentor said that he was disappointed about how I let myself slipped into depression, etc, etc..

Did he really think that I was
happy to be depressed?

Any normal being would know that nobody wants to be in depression & that includes yours truly.

My immediate thoughts then was if a blog reader has nothing nice to say.. then don't comment. Why bother flaming me for my depressing posts???

If I go to a restaurant to have a meal & it isn't to my taste, I will pay & leave.. but I will never go back there again. Neither will I go to the kitchen & tell the chef about his poor culinary skills.

So as blog readers, when we come across a blog that we like, we'll go back for more. If we don't like what we read, we'll just move on to other blogs. After all, there are many blogs out there & we all are entitled to our choice.

Fyi, Cocka.. I once got an email from a female blogger who leaves nice comments on blogs including mine & yet in that email..she judged me by saying that I wasn't good enough to be a friend of a certain male blogger. So, I stopped visiting her blog & I even deleted her link from my blogroll. Who is she to judge me???
She has never even met me in real life.

Hence, if they continue to judge people as they are.. well, I believe God will judge them well come Judgement Day.

So, bravo, my friend.. for this post.
 
My dear may-may...It's not you lah. This one is a senile old fart I'm talking about.
Sorry can't meet up for BKT although I would very much love to.
Very busy these days. Can't afford the time to visit and comment as much as I like to. Never mind...I come down to Oz one of these days, yeah!

Lokter...Pls help splash water to cool me down.
Oi? What breathe in & out? You think I'm giving birth meh? LOL
You and ah ben talking bout me ah? No wonder my ears itch and something else went 'boing boing' lah. LOL
Yeah, I been busy running around in Kiasuland and Sabai-Sabai land over the week.

Tarpliu-tarpliu Ho....on which side? Backside ah? *shivers*

Jemima....wah!!! Your comment so long wan ah? Longer than my post leh! LOL
Which male commenter flame you ah? Wait a sec! Are we talking bout the same prick??
Why that female blogger said that? She and you fighting over the same guy huh?
Never mind lah...not happy with the content of that e-mail then delete it....like some ppl I know would do to their post, comments or even blogs.
 
Wah! Looks like that person didn't just got a few of your feathers ruffled wor. He plucked your whole tootsie bare!!!

You in little red dot? How come I din hear you crow geh?
 
Kom serious geh?
Who pissed you off?
 
siao liao, the one who di-di-siao-siao judge cocka, now cocka "poke" back liao.

judge people is okay if you leave your name or nice, if it's anonymous..really shake head lor!

i kena a few times.. no choice, too many anonymous around!
 
oh, btw, dun splash water on you la to cool down..


splash water on the one with the sign board, it would be more worthwhile!
 
can i judge u? u r the biggest talk-cocker in the blogosphere whahaha.... cabut!!

seefei
 
Cocka dahling... I oso mischu!! When are you coming to visit me?? :D
 
ECL...Ahh...nothing too serious lah.
Yeah, I was in little red dot last Mon & Tues. How to contact you leh? Whats your number? Send me your contact at doodle.cocka@gmail.com
Ok, ok I'm trying to gather a few kiasuland bloggers to ravage some crabs on my next visit.
You are definitely on my list.

KW...Some old fart pissed me off. If I see him on the street, I'll kick away his walking stick!
Muahahahaha!!!

Leonard... ya lah. There will always be people who thinks they are 'holier than thou' lah.
The best part is some of these pricks have not even met you before and they start judging. Tiu!
Why you want to splash water on that fella ah?
His wet shirt looks turn you on meh? LOL
I always suspected you were a closet case. MUahahaahaha!!!

Seefei!!!! Where have you been?? Long time no see!!
How's the baby-making sessions coming along? Any results?

Kat!! Yeah..I mischu too!! You in Dabi Dabi, how to come? I usually go to Tupai wor.
Pssst! How's the women dressed over there during summer? Everything else scantily-clad except for the veil ah? LOL
 
haha, finally a rant from cocka, making him human after all. i totally understand what you say and it's so true. i don't know why ppl deem it fit to judge others so quickly when they know so little...but then we get them all the time in the comments on our posts. yes, even more so in the real world. the only consolation....these ppl don't know us at all and are definitely not considered as friends. why then should we even care what they think?!
 
I not sked to be judged la... at least you tell me la what your judgement is.

Whether I accept it or not is still up to me.
 
Wow... this is serious. Cocka, you gotta go to see doctor. Your body temperature is 40 degree.

But then... you might be right. It's human nature to judge others but not oneself. And we like to impose our values on others.
 
Aiyah Cocka! Don't care what other say lah! U still have a lot of loyal reader! See almost everyday I poke in here to read ur coc*k story & to learn something new! So cool down & have a nice day!
 
uncle u guai seong sun ah?
 
Lenglui...wei? sorry no time to hop over to your blog these days hor.
Very busy with work....but next Sunday is reserved for you. I'm all YOURS!!!!!! What you want to eat? It's on me!! *wink wink*


Bernard...good point. And neither am I perturbed about it.
I just eff them back for their inability to accept diversity.
It's a sad case these days to see elderly ppl are frequently asked to retire early. Their dogmatic point of view and lacking in the acceptance of diverse views or changes that are necessary for the corporation to evolve has led to their own downfall.

Khengsiong...Haha! Ya, I just saw doctor Bernard. He prescribed 'Chicken soup for the soul'
LOL
Hmmm....since you are doing your MBA, I like to pick your opinion on this.
What if we don't judge? Would we still be able to evaluate things or see things in different perspective?
Then again, isn't the evaluation process would derive some form of judgment in the end result?
The end results are usually factual, but at times opinionated. The latter is not necessarily based a learned opinion but instead a bias one.
Ok. mind boggling mou?


Horny Orang utan...You are my loyal reader ah? hahahha tenkiu tenkiu! But ppl say I don't write right wor. So how?

Sengjai....know of any witch doctors anot?
 
cocka,
It is OK to judge, but I should control our feeling of aversion and hatred. And we must not zealously impose our opinions on others.
 
Gee! "Senile old fart!" U talking about me kah, Coca (How come that reminds me of Thai steamboat restaurant?? Yum! Yum! I guess people my age, AND my shape and size, can only think about food...not x!)? LOL! The guy who looked like the guy in your pic said, "Judge not and you will not be judged." The Chinese said don't point at others cos you have four other fingers pointing back at you(Never can figure that out! Wnere got so many fingers? Where's the other one? LOL!!!).
 
oi...thot i can get to read something funny skali unke scolding ppl..niamamind la...we go sing kalaoke happy happy fan k?
 
*comb down pak cham kai's feathers*
today i gib you brylcreem massage for free. a good turn deserves another, since you are a kind cock who always console and brighten everybody's lives around here.
 
Come-come we go ambush that old fart! kakaka
 
I was worried you were getting me back for that Ah Beng ignorant statement I made. So glad I am not a Canadian. Phew!
 
i want eat 'tong charn yoke'. kekekeke.

signed,
the wu lei cheng
 
cocka i've never seen u this mad before, ur scaring me!
 
Khengsiong...yeah, good point. Hmm..that reminds me that a certain religion is also very imposing and judgmental. Scary isn't it?

Suitapui... Aisey! I where got talk about you wor? Besides, you are only in your mid 20s I was told. MUahaahaha!! *cough cough* so you don't fall in that category.
What is your shape and size ah? Medium? large? extra large? King Kong large? LOL

Amah...sing kalaoke ah? Ok ok ...I've been practising Leslie Cheung's numbers to do duet with you liao.
"Pu yuan fang kai ni ter soul...."

Misty!! Muaks! Muaks! Your brylcreem massage which part wan?
Brylcreem is hair cream right? So whichever part got hair, you'll massage ah? LOL

Ace1....I'm begining to like you already. Hahahaah!!
Good idea! We let go the air of his wheelchair tyres, ok? Then we hide his dentures also. Not forgetting recalibrating the rhythm his pacemaker.
Turn up the volume of his hearing-aid and play a trumpet beside him. Wakakakakakakaka!! We gonna have so much fun after all!!

Simple Yank...Naw, it wasn't directed at you. Besides, you're not even in your twilight years, SA.
Hahha...don't worry. When I'm hitting at you, you'll know for sure! LOL

Wu lei ching...Apa itu 'tong charn yoke'? Why from lenglui transformed into wu lei ching geh?
Hoe tor lam yan sei hai li geh sao siong jor?

Wuching (without the lei)....Don't worry, I'm quite harmless wan. Unless provoked! LOL
 
my dear cocka... if I showed u my *toot*, u dun faint ohh... :p

u know, I really dun like to judge ppl wan, u know... but then again, it is impossible not to make judgments, betul tak? so, what I do is, I judge in my heart quiet-quietly and then if one day, something happens and my 'feathers' also kena ruffled, I TELL ALL! Muahahaha...

so, am I bad ah? :|
 
Cocka cool down lor!! Let Wennnn help U lift up the steam?? How U like it?? Hehehehheeheh.... I also kena b4 lor la I know how it feels!!! No worry I make U one more meat sausage!!
 
My dearest Angel....Wah lao! You 'still water runs deep-deep' ah?
I want to see your *toot*. Faster show!
Wait! Let me get the crowd control..."police Line!!! Stand back!! stand back!!!!"
LOL


Wenn....Don't worry. Cocka always cool cucumber wan. See, 2 years of blogging only written 2 rants. You say I cool mou?
 
Cucumber? Did somebody say cucumber? Reminds me of this joke...two ladies talking!!! One said, "Yunno ah, Curry-fouray goy sale, u buy one cucumber, u get one free!" The other lady was delighted to hear that and excalimed, "Is that so? Good! Then I can eat the other one.....!!!" (Anyone laughing?? Blush! Blush!!!)
 
unker cocka where have u been? so long din see u geh???
 
Hi STP....Hahahaha!! Good one!.
Here's another;
"One day a naive young lady complained to her neighbor about her tomatoes in her garden not ripening properly.
Her wicked neighbor then suggested that she strip naked and walk thru her vegetable patch at midnight because when the tomatoes see her, they'll turn red with embarrassment.
The next morning, her neighbor asked if the tomatoes has turned red.
She replied; "Err...not very red lah, ...but I noticed the cucumbers has grown 6 inches longer!!"
Kakakakaaa!!!

Ah Ben...Unker very buzy with work lor....wat to do?
No time to come around facebook to play also.
You miss me so much meh?
 
OMG!!!! Talk about FENCING again ka? Or the OPPOSITE of FENCING? LOLOLOL!!! Niasing! Yeah, yeah, the world is full of noise ~ just need to sieve the chuff from the fluff ma.. Oi, let's go back to pinching backsides, ok?
 
Ha ha ha! And do u know that men must stay away from papayas??? It's a known fact that they are tenderisers - make meat tender!!!
And do you know what you should take when you want to make it HARD???...........Lady's fingers!!! LOL!!! (Gosh! I must go into hiding!!! I imagine your female fans giving me the icy cold looks already!)
 
LB...So you've arrive back to your little village somewhere in Italy?
Naw...this isn't about FENCING anymore. That's buried a long time ago. This is about a senile old fart with a judgmental attitude.
Hey! Here's something you ought to watch http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=3710987618964917848....afterall you're a Real Doll fan right?

STP....hahahaha!!!
What's the difference between a circus and a high class whore house?
One has an array of cunning stunts, the other has a variety of stunning cunts! LOL
Wait for me! I need to hide behind you as well!
 
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